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Sub-type of ‘SJ’s. Most frequently corresponds to Enneagram Type Two.

Below are some well-known likely eSFJs. Click here for fictional characters.

These warm, sympathetic people are naturally predisposed to care deeply about the well-being of others. ‘eSfJ’s have well-developed people skills and are remarkably adept at promoting harmony and fellowship within groups. Caretakers also tend to be very practical and they're willing to do whatever it takes to make sure people are as comfortable and happy as possible. They'd rather not waste their time with abstract ideas and hypothetical discussions because those only serve to distract them from the people and things that matter most to them.

Excerpted from PersonalityPage.com:

‘eSfJ’s are people persons - they love people. They are warmly interested in others. They use their Sensing and Judging characteristics to gather specific, detailed information about others, and turn this information into supportive judgments. They want to like people, and have a special skill at bringing out the best in others. They are extremely good at reading others, and understanding their point of view. The ‘eSfJ’'s strong desire to be liked and for everything to be pleasant makes them highly supportive of others. People like to be around ‘eSfJ’s, because the ‘eSfJ’ has a special gift of invariably making people feel good about themselves.

The ‘eSfJ’ takes their responsibilities very seriously, and is very dependable. They value security and stability, and have a strong focus on the details of life. They see before others do what needs to be done, and do whatever it takes to make sure that it gets done. They enjoy these types of tasks, and are extremely good at them.

‘eSfJ’s are warm and energetic. They need approval from others to feel good about themselves. They are hurt by indifference and don't understand unkindness. They are very giving people, who get a lot of their personal satisfaction from the happiness of others. They want to be appreciated for who they are, and what they give. They're very sensitive to others, and freely give practical care. ‘eSfJ’s are such caring individuals, that they sometimes have a hard time seeing or accepting a difficult truth about someone they care about.

With Extraverted Feeling dominating their personality, ‘eSfJ’s are focused on reading other people. They have a strong need to be liked, and to be in control. They are extremely good at reading others, and often change their own manner to be more pleasing to whoever they're with at the moment.

The ‘eSfJ’'s value system is defined externally. They usually have very well-formed ideas about the way things should be, and are not shy about expressing these opinions. However, they weigh their values and morals against the world around them, rather than against an internal value system. They may have a strong moral code, but it is defined by the community that they live in, rather than by any strongly felt internal values.

‘eSfJ’s who have had the benefit of being raised and surrounded by a strong value system that is ethical and centered around genuine goodness will most likely be the kindest, most generous souls who will gladly give you the shirt off of their back without a second thought. For these individuals, the selfless quality of their personality type is genuine and pure. ‘eSfJ’s who have not had the advantage of developing their own values by weighing them against a good external value system may develop very questionable values. In such cases, the ‘eSfJ’ most often genuinely believes in the integrity of their skewed value system. They have no internal understanding of values to set them straight. In weighing their values against our society, they find plenty of support for whatever moral transgression they wish to justify. This type of ‘eSfJ’ is a dangerous person indeed. Extraverted Feeling drives them to control and manipulate, and their lack of Intuition prevents them from seeing the big picture. They're usually quite popular and good with people, and good at manipulating them. Unlike their ENFJ cousin, they don't have Intuition to help them understand the real consequences of their actions. They are driven to manipulate other to achieve their own ends, yet they believe that they are following a solid moral code of conduct.

All ‘eSfJ’s have a natural tendency to want to control their environment. Their dominant function demands structure and organization, and seeks closure. ‘eSfJ’s are most comfortable with structured environments. They're not likely to enjoy having to do things which involve abstract, theoretical concepts, or impersonal analysis. They do enjoy creating order and structure, and are very good at tasks which require these kinds of skills. ‘eSfJ’s should be careful about controling people in their lives who do not wish to be controlled.

‘eSfJ’s respect and believe in the laws and rules of authority, and believe that others should do so as well. They're traditional, and prefer to do things in the established way, rather than venturing into unchartered territory. Their need for security drives their ready acceptance and adherence to the policies of the established system. This tendency may cause them to sometimes blindly accept rules without questioning or understanding them.

An ‘eSfJ’ who has developed in a less than ideal way may be prone to being quite insecure, and focus all of their attention on pleasing others. He or she might also be very controling, or overly sensitive, imagining bad intentions when there weren't any.

‘eSfJ’s incorporate many of the traits that are associated with women in our society. However, male ‘eSfJ’s will usually not appear feminine at all. On the contrary, ‘eSfJ’s are typically quite conscious about gender roles and will be most comfortable playing a role that suits their gender in our society. Male ‘eSfJ’s will be quite masculine (albeit sensitive when you get to know them), and female ‘eSfJ’s will be very feminine.

‘eSfJ’s at their best are warm, sympathetic, helpful, cooperative, tactful, down-to-earth, practical, thorough, consistent, organized, enthusiastic, and energetic. They enjoy tradition and security, and will seek stable lives that are rich in contact with friends and family.

Some likely fictional iSfJs include:
Richard Gilmore - Gilmore Girls